I probably shouldn’t
say this, but I’m glad summer’s almost over. Not only do I feel better in the fall, but I like
the clean slatiness of cold wind and endless gray bolts of flannel sky. Book
sale season begins anew and the winter clothes
come out of the dark recesses of the
closet which is ever so good for listing books. I finally realized in this
season of the four thousand volumes that
listing in the summer doesn’t really work for me. For one thing traffic’s lighter,
so what’s the point? But the real reason
is that in order to hunker down and dig
into it with gusto I need lots of very black
and very HOT coffee, comfortable sweats, fuzzy socks with little bumps on the
soles to keep me from going airborne
down the stairs, and less daylight. Yes, I do like a dark day in the winter for
listing books. Snow too. I like snow a lot.
So that being said, I’m a bit happier than when I Iast posted – which does NOT mean that I’m over the theft of the A.I. Root
catalog from my locked cabinet at the antiques mall. Every time I think of that
and count up my losses from thievery over the last two and a half years, I’m buzzier than a hornet trapped in a spider web.
But I don’t want to talk about that today. I want to talk about Hawaii. I know –
Hawaii is the polar (ha-ha) opposite of what I just said I like, but there’s a
reason I want to talk about it. The
boxes in the garage (or maybe the goddess Pele) have gifted me with several
Hawaiian ephemera items.
I don’t know if I told you this, or not, but my father’s
family , who were Portuguese, sailed from
the Madeira islands to Maui, Hawaii shortly before he was born. He lived there
his whole life until he served in the army in Italy during WWII, married my mother,
and wound up in Akron, Ohio. When I was a kid he’d tell us stories about Christmas
luaus on the beach, wrapping a pig in ti leaves, pounding poi with a mortar and
pestle, playing the guitar and singing
Hawaiian songs to the back-up of
a pounding surf. Every Christmas two gifts would arrive from Maui, each time
the exact same thin g --– a case of Dole pineapple with my uncle’s name printed
on the labels and a huge box of fresh fruit. Back then raw coconuts, guava, papaya and pineapples weren’t even a gleam in Kroger’s eye, so for a
week or so once a year I was the coolest girl on Kenyon Street. Sometimes the relatives
came to visit too -- though we never
went there – which was okay with me because at age ten I adamantly decided that I was
Irish, not Portuguese. It’s not that I
had anything against being Portuguese, it’s just that I didn’t look Portuguese and, more importantly, I didn’t FEEL Portuguese. I guess I probably still don’t on either count, but I’m more
interested these days since my sister
got her DNA done.
My father died two years after 9-11 and I was left for a lot
of crazy reasons to plan his funeral by myself. The funeral home (oh, spare me please
from those places!) dutifully played the Hawaiian CDs I bought for the calling
hours. At the funeral the next day I gave the eulogy and talked about the deeper
meaning of aloha. After the Mass the church bells pealed Aloha Oe which was a surprise even to me. The only sour
note was the fresh lei sent from Maui to
the funeral home for the calling hours from my father’s sister. It didn’t arrive until after the
burial and instead of being around his neck it had to be left on his grave. She has since
died too, but I learned of it only by chance on the internet last year. Once my
father, the only connection between us, was gone we drifted away.
Yet as I look through
all these Hawaiian ephemera items from the garage I am struck by how much I
have absorbed about Hawaii without realizing it. I am struck too by how much these
small items please me. The thing that
called to me the loudest before I even
knew anything about it was this little booklet covered in brown sueded cardstock.
It’s called The Hawaii I Loved and the author is Dorothy LaVerne Drake of Columbus, Ohio, a
young woman who graduated from Miami University (Ohio) and signed up immediately
to teach in the Territory of Hawaii. It was
1945 and Dorothy sailed on the first ship from the mainland since WWII. There
she joined four other teachers at the
ocean’s edge in a breathtaking liitle place called Laupahoehoe . For a while it proved idyllic but then came the morning of April 1, 1946. At 7 a.m. Dorothy and three other young
teachers, plus nineteen children, were swept away by a tsunami and their bodies
never recovered. This booklet was published in 1948 by Dorothy's family as a
remembrance. Robert Drake, then with the
Cleveland Plain Dealer, edited it from Dorothy’own
words On the title page of this copy a
handwritten message reads, Presented by Ethel & Leland Drake (Dorothy's
parents). A permanent memorial to the
victims of Laupahoehoe can be seen on YouTube. Dorothy’s name is near the top.
When I began writing this I wasn’t exactly sure where any of
it was headed, but it’s pretty obvious A
part of me has finally made peace with
my Hawaiian/Portuguese background. And for
that I can only say mahalo. Thank you.
It’s
about time.
7 comments:
This is a wonderful blog post Tess. We had my son's wedding in Maui and it is a remarkable island. I think you and Eric might like it, say in January. We went in August and it was 95 and we had a hurricane. But loved the luau and pig roast. Mahalo dear Hawaiian friend.
A friend of ELMER'S.
Thank you for the kind words. This post is a little different, but it seemed to write itself which is usually a sign that I should just go with the flow. So I did.
It is perfect. Go with the flow Tess, and let it lead you where it will.
Beautiful post about a great connection and memory. Interesting that you don't like to travel and warm weather isn't your favorite.
Well, see? I like those dark, misty, cold IRISH days and I even managed to get myself over there once. And stayed a MONTH too!!! But you're right -- I'm no traveler. I do like sunny,cool, crisp days. It just depends on what is being done at the time.
I am not much of a traveler either. Although if I could just wish myself to these wonderful places I'm sure I would be pleased as punch to be there. Do not like winter though with the slush of snow. I like very sunny, light breeze, temps in the high 70s days. Where is that? Enjoyed your post.
I used to like to travel, but it's so complicated anymore and takes so long. If I could do the "Beam Me Up Scotty" thing I'd probably zip all over the place! Ireland, Hawaii, the Madeira Islands, Korea, Tuscany and Hawaii.
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